On the Homefront

I've been thinking about something my pastor said to our congregation recently about service: "You have no business getting on a plane to serve in another country if you can't walk across the street." He was referring to those who are willing to do something "big" for those they may not know, but are unwilling to reach out, even in a small way, to someone you already know.

To extend this idea, do you ever treat people outside your family with more kindness and respect than in your own home? I've certainly fallen into this trap. We often save our "worst selves" for those closest to us. In that case, we have no business walking across the street to serve if we can't do the same within the four walls of our home.

Part of the temptation of doing good for others while ignoring the needs of loved ones is receiving public accolades. Doesn't it feel great to hear how kind and wonderful you are?! Seeking personal glorification is a sure sign your heart is in the wrong place. There are people in your life right now, within your circle of influence, who could benefit from your loving attention. It may be a conversation, opening a door, extending a compliment, completing a task, or making an anonymous donation. Look around. Who needs your kindness today?